Friday:
In the afternoon a couple of people in my house were talking about this event on campus called “sixes and sevens” and we thought it sounded pretty interesting so we decided to go. I’ll do my best to describe it. There are teams of guys that all dress up in ridiculous costumes; i.e. diapers, trash bag dresses, capes, etc. Before the event, every team chugs a bunch of beers and food coloring, then the races begin. Everyone takes a lap around the track and then chugs a beer at the start line. The whole idea of this is to throw up weird colors – which I knew would be disgusting, but it got much, much worse. Not only do they throw up but the goal is to throw up on other people. So, they would all tackle a guy to the ground and then stick their fingers down their throat to make themselves throw up on the person… so. Disgusting. Then they started doing tricks like wheelbarrow style but spinning the other guy by the legs as he threw up in circles. So weird that this was allowed to happen ON CAMPUS, right on the cricket field. Fortunately, we had to leave early to go get ready for the home stay. We didn’t have much time so I rushed to get my stuff together and we walked over to the bus. I really am so into immersing myself in this culture and getting to know the people, food, language and everything about it but I was just not looking forward to this weekend at all. We don’t get much time to do things because of school, so the weekend is the time we can explore and travel and I just was not into the idea of spending mine in a stranger’s house. I was wrong though, I made some great friends and a couple that I know I’ll be seeing a lot more of this semester. When we first got to Ocean View it was extremely awkward. It is a colored neighborhood so we were very out of place with a huge group of white kids walking down the street to the high school where we ate dinner. The kids were pointing, laughing and waving at us – they don’t see white people there very often. This is when I met Ann, in the awkward setting of sitting down with someone that you’re hoping you’re going to like because you’ll be stuck with them for the next 48 hours. As soon as I said hi she pulled me in and gave me a big hug, I knew that this weekend might not be so bad after all. Ann, me, and my CIEE partner, Sarah, all left early – led by Ann, who wanted to get home faster so that we could go out. We jumped in the back of her husband’s pick-up truck and rode over to their home. It was small, but had all the necessities… it really puts into perspective what you actually need and what you could do away with. Life there is so simple. Sarah and I slept in the other bedroom they had, that contained also the freezer and acted as a storage place for Jerry’s, her husband, work supplies. He’s an engineer. The room I think used to be her daughter’s, btu she passed away a couple years ago and Ann never really told us what happened. We quickly we offered beer after beer after Ann drilled us about what kind of alcohol we drink. Then we headed over to her sister’s house where 2 other CIEE students were, as well. So many of her family members were all there, it’s pretty awesome how close they all are and how often they’re with each other. Every time our glasses we empty, Jerry would make us a new drink and we spent the night dancing in a circle with everyone to rap, and Mexican music. It was really fun. Ann made us some tea when we got home and we went right to sleep, directed to sleep as late as we wanted and that breakfast would be ready whenever we got up.
Saturday:
We got up around 10:30 and started to get ready for the day. A shower is never something I really saw as a luxury, but in their bathroom they only had a tub and a toilet. No sink, no shower. It was certainly interesting to “shower” in a tub, but I pulled it off with little difficultly. This day was so much fun. First we stopped at Ann’s mom’s house, met her, and picked up Ann’s niece. The three of us sat in the back of the pick-up truck (my new favorite ride of choice) and we toured all around the cape, stopping at various places along the way like Chapman’s Peak and Fish Hoek. After we went to Imgoff’s Farm, which is kind of a flea market with lots of interesting little shops and craft stores. I got a cloth wall hanging that’s painted and has giraffe’s on it. I had told Ann I was looking for some original jewelry and I couldn’t really find it there, which is when I found out that Ann’s sister makes jewelry! I was so excited. It was a long, but wonderful day. This night Ann and Jerry had a Braii for their 15th wedding anniversary. SO MUCH FOOD. I actually made a pasta salad for the braii that turned out to be pretty good, I was very impressed with myself. There we also samosa’s there which are I think a Muslim food that are like some beef mixture in a little fried pasty which we dipped in sour cream and sweet chilli sauce – BEST THING I’VE EVER EATEN. Again, drink after drink, and we just sat around the fire with some more of Ann’s family talking about different things that we do and say in our cultures. They thought the idea of State Patty’s was hilarious, and I was disappointed to hear that Halloween is not really celebrated here. They also said that they couldn’t even pick a favorite holiday, because they spend them all the same way, and that was what we were doing that night. Ann’s sister also brought over some of her jewelry and it was all so pretty and cool. We ended the night again with tea and watched Saw V, interesting movie choice but I love scary movies so that was great.
Sunday:
In the morning, breakfast was prepared again and we went over to Ann’s sister’s to buy some of her jewelry and stop by her house. The whole morning she was preparing lunch, so when we got back we just hung out for a little and then ate. It was so so good and I’m now obsessed with sweet chilli sauce and rooibus tea. I bought both today from the supermarket. At 3:00 we were supposed to go back to the high school to take the busses back to campus and we took some pictures with Ann and Jerry and said bye after exchanges phone numbers, e-mail addresses and facebook names. Five minutes later, Anna comes back over to us and goes, “girls, want to just stay with us for the day, and we’ll drive you back later?” At this point she hadn’t asked our director but we said yes of course and jumped right back in the pick-up truck. We drove with them to pick up Ann’s other sister from work and then went to her house. Her house was in Bellville and was really nice; it was also the first place I’ve been in that had air conditioning, which was a plus. We hung out and watched the Manchester United soccer game and just talked to them. At around 7, they drove us both home and we made plans to go back soon and to learn how to make the samosas, which I’m ecstatic about. It was a girl in my houses’ 21st birthdays so my house went out to dinner at Camp’s Bay to a really nice restaurant. Amazing chicken burger and margarita’s. Afterwards we went to Goldfish again because it was their last concert of the summer and also we were pretty much just under the club. We got a picture with Goldfish too after they performed which was cool. Both back and forth our fun taxi driver from the other weekend, Evie, drove us and blasted some more music.
Monday:
Today was very hectic, but great. In the morning I had to get up early and go to the grocery store to buy some more air time for my phone because I’d run out early the night before and had no way of contacting anyone. Then I went to my first and only class of the day. After, I went to my first real day of my internship at PASSOP. This meant that I would have to get all the way to Wynberg by myself, which at first scared me a little bit but I know I’ve gotten pretty confident with public transportation and it was during the day. I actually took the campus bus to a town closer to Wynberg so I would just have to take the crazy mini-bus one stop. I even remembered exactly where the office was and went right up. I met the program coordinator today, David, who is probably about 24-25. He’d been in a surfing accident the day before we came to take a tour of the office so I hadn’t seen him then. We sat down and had a meeting about PASSOP and what it does, and how I would relate and help them with fundraising. I have some pretty big jobs on my plate, but it was awesome showing him THON’s website and telling him about all the fundraising we do. He was so impressed with THON and really liked the THONline donations, which we might try to replicate on their website. Anyway, I’m going to be in charge of figuring out how to set it up so that people can make donations directly from their website (no idea how to do this) as well as register them as an NGO in the United States so that they can get a tax return number to make it easier to receive donations from the States (also, clueless). Right now I’m just supposed to research so that I can ultimately work with them to finalize it and figure it out. I’m also in charge of organizing and heading 2 fundraising events before I leave, which is more what I’m really excited about. It was really cool knowing that what I do here at PASSOP will have a lasting impression there and really will make such a difference in their organization. After I spent about 2.5 hours there, I made my way back on the mini-bus which was again, not scary at all (getting so good at this!) and got back to Rondebosch just in time to change and head to social rugby club. We got there super early, and so we just hung out with the guys who were setting up. Today we learned how to play rugby from some of the guys on the second-string team and one actual rugby player who didn’t go to the away game tonight because he’s injured. It was a little difficult to pick up on because I kept thinking of it like football, and it’s nothing like football. We also only played touch rugby today because we’re just trying to start a girl’s intramural team and none of us knew how to play. I think they were pretty amused by us. I got a little messy because I dove for a pass, which I was told was good because he said I was starting to ACTUALLY play some kind of real rugby. It was so hot today too, so after running (rugby involves SO much running) for over an hour we were all so sweaty and hot. The one guy says, “Come on over here, we have some drinks for you.” We run over thinking that it’s water, and they hand us all beers. Not as refreshing as I had had in mind, but we took them nonetheless. I still always feel so weird drinking on campus; it’s so normal here because everyone in college can drink. Since the game was away, they played it on a big projector screen in the rugby club (they have a bar in the sports complex just for the rugby team) and we went in and watched for a little bit. Touch rugby and real rugby are very, very different sports. Real rugby is so much more scary and hardcore. We played barefoot too which was so cool so I just walked home that way, I absolutely love how that is s normal here. Tonight I just went grocery shopping and Reinhard (our RA) made us the African version of sloppy joes… again, so good. I am in love with the food here. And everything else here too.